{"id":130,"date":"2018-08-15T23:50:26","date_gmt":"2018-08-15T23:50:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/makehimsure.com\/blog\/?p=130"},"modified":"2018-08-24T02:01:12","modified_gmt":"2018-08-24T02:01:12","slug":"8-body-language-signs-that-he-loves-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/makehimsure.com\/blog\/8-body-language-signs-that-he-loves-you\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Body Language Signs That He Loves You"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Slade Shaw
\nAuthor of\u00a0Why Men Pull Away<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Learn exactly what pushes men to leave\u2026and how to NEVER feel abandoned or rejected<\/p>\n

Why Men Pull Away\u2026and What Makes Them STAY In Love<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n

8 Body Language Signs That He Loves You<\/h2>\n

\u201cEmotion looks the same whether you\u2019re a suburban housewife or a suicide bomber. The truth is written on our faces.\u201d \u2013 Cal Lightman, \u201cLie To Me\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Men: aren\u2019t they a handful?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not stressing out over their will-he-or-won\u2019t-he-commit antics, they\u2019re giving you mixed signs about how they feel.<\/p>\n

It can be frustrating trying to decode what a man says because unlike women, he\u2019s not as emotionally expressive. So, he may be feeling one way, but his words suggest otherwise.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s not that he\u2019s trying to mislead you on purpose. The problem is that most guys grew up not learning how to communicate their feelings.<\/p>\n

So that leaves a lot of room for misunderstandings and unspoken sentiments.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, even he doesn\u2019t know what he\u2019s feeling at the moment and has a hard time sorting them out.<\/p>\n

That makes it even more challenging for a guy to give you the real deal about where you stand with him.<\/p>\n

On top of that, your guy might be particularly shy or terrified at the thought of getting turned down (something common among men).<\/p>\n

Missed signs, Missed opportunities<\/strong><\/h3>\n

With so much getting in the way, it\u2019s easy for you to misread his signs and take it for romantic interest \u2013 which of course, will put a huge, AWKWARD wedge between you two.<\/p>\n

Or maybe the signs were flashing right in front of you, but went over your head.<\/p>\n

And when you finally realized it after the fact, it was too late and the proverbial ship had already sailed.<\/p>\n

If either of those things have happened to you, don\u2019t fret. Plenty of women have had their dreamboat get away from them on account of this pesky problem.<\/p>\n

But there is a way to read your guy like a book so you when he\u2019s giving you the green light\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026or if you should take a detour and move on.<\/p>\n

While his words can be ambiguous, his BODY is another story. Everything he does sends a clear message of how he\u2019s REALLY feeling.<\/p>\n

Dr. David Givens, Ph.D., author of \u201cLove Signals: A Practical Field Guide to the Body Language of Courtship\u201d, says that humans give off these non-verbal cues during the courtship phase as a way of \u201cfeeling out\u201d a potential mate.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a certain rhythm to it, much like how animals engage in mating rituals.<\/p>\n

In other words, it\u2019s in our DNA, and humans have been playing this game for as long as we\u2019ve been on this planet.<\/p>\n

And if you want to win big time, the trick is to learn the crucial signs that tell you your guy is, in fact, feeling it.<\/p>\n

If you can identify the signals as he gives them off, you\u2019ll know exactly how to plan your next move.<\/p>\n

Best of all, these signs are just as legit whether you\u2019ve known him for some time, like a colleague or mutual friend\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026or that hottie who walked into the coffee shop five minutes ago.<\/p>\n

With that, let\u2019s get into the 8 Sure-Fire Body Cues He\u2019s Into You:<\/strong><\/p>\n

#1: What do his eyes tell you?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Before anything else, he\u2019s going to scope the scene. So your guy will try and get a feel of things by making eye contact.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s trying to make a visual connection, that\u2019s him reaching out and checking if he can move on to the next step.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll usually start with a tentative glance, connect with you, then look somewhere else.<\/p>\n

And when he looks at you again, it\u2019s game on!<\/p>\n

Personally, I\u2019m not a fan of the whole check-his-pupils-if-they\u2019re-dilated business. It\u2019s not like you can walk up and start observing him like a lab rat.<\/p>\n

Anyway, the important thing is that he\u2019s got that look that says he wants to reach out and touch you \u2013 which brings us to the next sign\u2026<\/p>\n

Discover Why Men Pull Away \u2013 and make sure he\u2019ll NEVER leave you\u2026<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

#2: He\u2019ll want to get up close and personal<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Alright, so his next move is getting in your space, but in a friendly and non-threatening way.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re telling him something during a conversation and he\u2019ll get in closer to hear you better.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re 100% audible within earshot and he STILL gets in to listen, that\u2019s different.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s him instinctively trying to get into your comfort zone in a casual manner. It\u2019s all very subtle and chances are he\u2019s not even aware he\u2019s doing it.<\/p>\n

But all the same, humans use physical proximity as a yardstick of emotional closeness. And a guy going the distance is probably on the path to being more than friends with you.<\/p>\n

This could be a man who checked you out at the bookstore or grocery aisle and made some chit-chat \u2013 or a long-time friend trying to escalate things further.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter. Speaking of escalation, let\u2019s move on\u2026<\/p>\n

#3: He\u2019ll turn things up<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ok, let me back up a bit first. Most men grew up not really having the benefit of physical affection as much as women do.<\/p>\n

While women are usually more keen to express themselves through touch \u2013 and getting that in return \u2013 guys aren\u2019t in the same position.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s just how it is and there\u2019s nothing wrong with that. It does, however, put your man in a position where he\u2019s, in a way, \u201cstarved\u201d for this kind of attention.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why when he\u2019s in the presence of someone he digs, he\u2019ll naturally gravitate towards her.<\/p>\n

More importantly, if your guy feels THAT way for you, he\u2019ll try to make contact in \u201csmall\u201d ways.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to be low-key, like brushing against your elbow\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026tapping your shoulder to get your attention\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026a playful jab when you\u2019re joking around\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026or squeezing your forearm ever so lightly for a microsecond when he\u2019s making a point in a conversation.<\/p>\n

Also, your smooth operator is going to gauge how you react. So if you\u2019re feeling it too, help him out by responding favorably.<\/p>\n

He knows he\u2019s treading on unfamiliar ground, which is why your man is dying to get a sign of hope from you \u2013 just saying\u2026<\/p>\n

#4: He\u2019s got a different vibe around you<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Do you sense your guy\u2019s a bit on edge, or isn\u2019t at ease as he is with other people (e.g. his buddies, co-workers, etc.)?<\/p>\n

Or maybe he\u2019s acting a bit awkward, stammers a little and his voice has a nervous pitch to it\u2026<\/p>\n

If your man\u2019s like this with you, and NOT with anyone else, then he sees you differently from them \u2013 and that\u2019s a GOOD thing.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s feeling a special kind of pressure that only comes with someone he\u2019s in love with.<\/p>\n

You might not realize that while he\u2019s talking to you, he\u2019s racking his brains trying to think of the perfect response.<\/p>\n

So he might end up tripping over himself trying to impress you. In his mind, he wants to be that funny, charming guy he thinks you want him to be.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll probably notice that he can\u2019t keep his hands still either. He\u2019s either ramming his straw in his drink, chewing his lip, tapping his foot while he\u2019s seated, twirling a pencil between his fingers, or running his hands through his hair.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re noticing any of this, try to put him at ease. Trust me, a little encouragement goes a long way with a guy.<\/p>\n

Once he knows he\u2019s still in the game, he\u2019ll eventually overcome that awkwardness and sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n

Click here to discover the sure-fire way to make him stay\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

#5: He\u2019s trying to look his best<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Look at the way he\u2019s standing in front of you. If he appeared laid back and relaxed before you showed up, he might suddenly act like there\u2019s an invisible hanger in the back of his shirt.<\/p>\n

Aside from that, he\u2019ll be showing off his glorious pecs by sticking his chest out.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s unconsciously broadcasting his masculine features in the hopes of getting your attention, not unlike peacocks who flaunt their feathers to attract a mate.<\/p>\n

You might even catch him fixing his hair or smoothing out his shirt with his hands if he knows you\u2019re nearby.<\/p>\n

I call it the \u201cDrill Sergeant Effect\u201d: when you walk by, he\u2019ll snap at full attention and wouldn\u2019t dream about disappointing you.<\/p>\n

#6: Everything else fades into the background<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You know how it is in cartoons or movies when the guy\u2019s love interest is talking and he\u2019s practically hypnotized from watching her lips move?<\/p>\n

For further comedic effect, it\u2019ll turn dead silent right before cheesy romantic music starts playing.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, the poor guy\u2019s sitting there, mesmerized. He couldn\u2019t find a way out of her eyes even if he had a map!<\/p>\n

So what I\u2019m trying to say is that you kind of have the same effect on a guy, and it SHOWS.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll make you feel like you\u2019re the most important person in the room.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s because you ARE that important to him, and he\u2019ll be hanging on to every word you say. It\u2019s like nobody else is there because you have his FULL attention.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll nod, laugh and give you a healthy dose of \u2018uh-huh\u2019, \u2018yeah\u2019, \u2018oh\u2019 and \u2018wow\u2019 to let you know he\u2019s really listening to you.<\/p>\n

#7: He\u2019ll be \u2018in sync\u2019 with you<\/strong><\/h3>\n

No, he\u2019s not going to try to win you over by singing and dancing like a certain boy band.<\/p>\n

(A little 90s reference there\u2026 *wink, wink*)<\/p>\n

Ok, semi-funny jokes aside (you chuckled a little, admit it), a guy in love will try to match your pace in a couple of crucial ways.<\/p>\n

First, he\u2019s going to walk alongside you at a slower pace.<\/p>\n

Weird, right? But it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

This might be a situation where you ran into each other by chance, or you\u2019re both headed in the same direction for some reason (like running an errand together or something like that).<\/p>\n

Whatever it is, he\u2019s likely to adjust his speed, usually by slowing down.<\/p>\n

According to a Seattle Pacific University study entitled \u201cEnergetic Consequences of Human Sociality: Walking Speed Choices among Friendly Dyads\u201d, men have generally evolved to either speed up or slow down for their partner so she doesn\u2019t have to waste any precious energy.<\/p>\n

So what that all means is that he\u2019s doing this for your benefit, and it\u2019s a privilege reserved only for YOU.<\/p>\n

And here\u2019s another interesting tidbit about sexual attraction: he\u2019s going to try and match YOUR body language as well.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be doing what you do, like leaning forward when you\u2019re sitting across each other, or have his hands on his hips like you while standing up.<\/p>\n

It could even extend into verbal territory, like trying to TALK like you.<\/p>\n

For instance, he\u2019ll start using your favorite expressions \u2013 that\u2019s him subconsciously expressing his desire to establish rapport with you.<\/p>\n

That way, you\u2019ll feel more comfortable around him.<\/p>\n

And finally, the last big thing to look out for\u2026<\/p>\n

#8: He\u2019s\u2026<\/strong>\u201copen\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Nothing like a vague sign to end things on an anticlimactic note, am I right?<\/p>\n

(Just kidding\u2026last one, I promise!)<\/p>\n

Yeah, so you\u2019ll notice that he\u2019ll avoid any gestures that might suggest that he\u2019s closed off to you in any shape or form.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not going to blow his chances by sending any message along the lines of \u201cgo away!\u201d<\/p>\n

His arms won\u2019t be crossed and he\u2019ll sit back in his chair to look relaxed (even though his heart\u2019s racing), and his feet are pointed towards you.<\/p>\n

Oh, and he\u2019ll probably have a big old smile plastered on his gorgeous mug. And it\u2019s not the polite kind of smile, either.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about the holy-cow-I-can\u2019t-believe-you\u2019re-actually-here-and-I-hope-this-moment-never-ends kind of smile that you can\u2019t miss.<\/p>\n

Men have a knack for flashing those pearly whites because they\u2019re a signal they\u2019re truly grateful for sharing the same air as you.<\/p>\n

That might sound a little needy or desperate, but believe me, a guy couldn\u2019t care any less about feeling this way about you.<\/p>\n

In those precious moments, time seems to freeze and nothing else matters to him except YOU. He\u2019s in awe of you and it\u2019s nothing short of MAGICAL for him.<\/p>\n

His body will show it, and that expression on his face will tell you.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re seeing more than half of these signs, then you\u2019ve got a good thing going for you.<\/p>\n

But what if you USED to see these signs, and the magic has faded a bit?<\/p>\n

He had that warmth about him before, but now things have gotten a little chilly.<\/p>\n

Or worse, he might even be showing signs that he\u2019s PULLING AWAY.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t despair though \u2013 it\u2019s not the end of the world\u2026or your relationship.<\/p>\n

You see, I\u2019ve helped plenty of women figure out exactly why guys leave, and it\u2019s NOT for the reasons you think.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you can spot these signs immediately AND keep him from walking out the door.<\/p>\n

Better yet, you can make him feel like he\u2019s falling in love with you all over again. Then he\u2019ll give you those body language signals of affection all day, every day.<\/p>\n

It all starts by watching this free video I just put up:<\/p>\n

Find out why he wants to leave \u2013 and how to win him back \u2013 CLICK HERE<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n

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