{"id":121,"date":"2018-08-15T23:43:27","date_gmt":"2018-08-15T23:43:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/makehimsure.com\/blog\/?p=121"},"modified":"2018-08-24T02:15:59","modified_gmt":"2018-08-24T02:15:59","slug":"how-to-make-him-miss-you-badly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/makehimsure.com\/blog\/how-to-make-him-miss-you-badly\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Make Him Miss You Badly"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Slade Shaw
\nAuthor of\u00a0Why Men Pull Away<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Learn exactly what pushes men to leave\u2026and how to NEVER feel abandoned or rejected<\/p>\n

Why Men Pull Away\u2026and What Makes Them STAY In Love<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n

How To Make Him Miss You Badly<\/h2>\n

\u201cYour body is away from me, but there is a window open from my heart to yours.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2013 Rumi<\/p>\n

Remember the last time you felt a powerful longing for that special someone?<\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019ve only known him for a while, or you\u2019re in a long-term relationship with him\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026if he matters to you, being away from him is painful.<\/p>\n

But how do you make him feel the SAME?<\/p>\n

Suzanne, a preschool teacher from Sacramento, met Patrick through a mutual friend.<\/p>\n

They went out a few times over the last few months, and they seem to be getting along fine. However, something told Suzanne that he\u2019s not that into it as she is.<\/p>\n

She shared, \u201cI was always the one who texted him first. It would take him a couple of hours to reply, and it\u2019d be like that the whole day.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEvery time I\u2019d try and reach out \u2013 like sending him a funny picture or video \u2013 I wouldn\u2019t get much of a reaction out of him,\u201d Suzanne added.<\/p>\n

It was a bit frustrating for her because she really thought Patrick was a great guy, but didn\u2019t feel like he missed Suzanne enough.<\/p>\n

And it was mostly Suzanne who made the effort to plan things so they could go out again.<\/p>\n

It got to a point where she started to think he was slipping away.<\/p>\n

That was when she decided to do something about it.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf I was going to lose him, I might as well try a few things to see if it would get him back,\u201d Suzanne said.<\/p>\n

After she made a few changes, it did make a difference.<\/p>\n

Patrick started replying right away, and he was the one who texted first thing in the morning.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t sending Suzanne sweet messages throughout the day, he was making plans to see her.<\/p>\n

And when they got together again, he finally told Suzanne what she wanted to hear:<\/p>\n

\u201cHey, I really missed you.\u201d<\/p>\n

Are you doing enough?<\/p>\n

For a lot of women, everything seems fine and dandy when they\u2019re with their guy.<\/p>\n

The tricky part is when they start spending time away from each other. There\u2019s the risk of him drifting off and losing interest.<\/p>\n

And the problem is that these women go about it the wrong way. They think that have to pull some attention-grabbing stunt like going on social media and playing the jealousy game.<\/p>\n

Chances are he\u2019s not going to fall for the \u201cLook at me with these other guys on Facebook\u201d trick.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to backfire and it won\u2019t make him think about you more.<\/p>\n

A better way is to give him hints and reminders that you\u2019re someone worth thinking about 24\/7.<\/p>\n

With a little finesse, you can make him long for you like no other woman has.<\/p>\n

Here are 7 Great Ways To Make A Man Miss You:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

#1: A little info goes a long way<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Oversharing is one of the biggest turn-offs for a guy. I can\u2019t tell you how many times women have shot themselves in the foot with this one mistake!<\/p>\n

This applies more to someone you\u2019re just getting to know. And if you think he might be the The One, you\u2019ll be tempted to open up to him.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve noticed that women do this to strengthen their bond with a guy as quickly as possible.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a big mistake though, because trying to rush things with a guy emotionally is not a good recipe for romance.<\/p>\n

And trying to fast-track that connection with him is likely to freak him out.<\/p>\n

Kevin, a lawyer from Florida, once told me, \u201cEverything was going great with this girl Tiffany whom I asked out to dinner. But then she started talking about her exes.<\/p>\n

I nearly choked on my steak when she told me about\u2026the things she used to do with them. I don\u2019t know what her deal was, and the only reason I didn\u2019t sneak out the bathroom window was because they didn\u2019t have one!\u201d<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably not as explicit as Tiffany when it comes to personal details (I hope!), but you get the idea.<\/p>\n

Avoid talking about the touchy, personal areas of your life for now. If ever you wander into that territory, don\u2019t give detailed answers and change the subject.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need to fudge the facts, but you don\u2019t need to beat him over the head with it, either.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s plenty of time for that stuff later on. For now, give him some room to wonder about what makes you tick!<\/p>\n

Click here to discover the sure-fire way to make him stay\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

#2: Dress to kill<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Of course, you want him to love you for who you are, and not just for what you look like.<\/p>\n

If he only liked your body and nothing else, what kind of a relationship would that be?<\/p>\n

But having said that, the way you present yourself STILL matters.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care if you\u2019ve known the guy for 3 weeks or 3 decades. If you stop caring about your looks and all that other basic stuff, it sends the wrong message.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll share a little secret with you \u2013 99% of the men I know don\u2019t want a supermodel for a partner.<\/p>\n

They just need to know that she\u2019s not going to trade her flattering outfits for a ratty shirt and sweatpants\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026stop going to the gym\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026or think hygiene is overrated.<\/p>\n

I mean, even if someone like Brad Pitt dressed like a slob, you probably wouldn\u2019t like him either, right?<\/p>\n

(Ok, maybe that wasn\u2019t the best example\u2026but you know where I\u2019m going with this.)<\/p>\n

So, stay on top of your game. Choose the right wardrobe and makeup (as much or as little of it as you need) to underscore your femininity.<\/p>\n

Let your clean, fresh appearance do the talking. Care about what you eat and burn those calories.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to be perfect (because NO one is), and it\u2019s not a prerequisite for making him miss you.<\/p>\n

The point is to look good and more importantly, FEEL GOOD about yourself.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll feel that confidence radiating from your whole body. And THAT\u2019S what will keep him coming back for more.<\/p>\n

#3: Hold your horses<\/strong><\/h3>\n

As much as you want him to want you, you should always keep the long game in mind.<\/p>\n

As we talked about earlier, a little intrigue is healthy in a relationship.<\/p>\n

It makes him want to pursue you, and put in the work to win you over.<\/p>\n

Men absolutely love a woman who\u2019s up for a challenge. There\u2019s a lot at stake when it comes to dating, but you still need to make it a FUN game for him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him what he wants all the time, and don\u2019t smother him with sweetness.<\/p>\n

Maybe on some days you\u2019re extra affectionate (whether it\u2019s face-to-face or through texts\/emails\/etc.)\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026then other times, you\u2019re very friendly BUT platonic towards him.<\/p>\n

Just when he thinks, \u201cI\u2019ve got this in the bag\u201d, you come out of nowhere and play mental judo with him.<\/p>\n

Oh, how guys love\/hate this one!<\/p>\n

Trust me, as a guy, I love being TEASED.<\/p>\n

Bear in mind however, he needs to know he\u2019s still in the game and that this will eventually lead somewhere.<\/p>\n

Keep it light, playful and good-natured so that he sticks around and thinks about you.<\/p>\n

#4: Get a life<\/strong><\/h3>\n

An awesome one, that is.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know about other guys, but I\u2019m not sure how to feel about a woman who\u2019s obviously not doing much aside from waiting for me to call her.<\/p>\n

Men actually don\u2019t like it when you\u2019re TOO available for them.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s kind of like playing chess with someone\u2026<\/p>\n

How would you feel if the other person suddenly yelled out, \u201cCheckmate, you got me!\u201d even before you made the first move?<\/p>\n

It wouldn\u2019t be any fun, right?<\/p>\n

Again, it\u2019s all about CHALLENGE.<\/p>\n

And living a happening, interesting life is one way to make your guy feel the bittersweet pain of your absence.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go on the ol\u2019 social media machine and post pictures of you at a party\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026while you\u2019re spending your free time watching \u201cSex and the City\u201d reruns in bed with a bag of chips.<\/p>\n

(Do women actually do that? If not, just insert your sedentary activity of choice.)<\/p>\n

Live your life from a genuine place and invest your time in doing things that help you GROW.<\/p>\n

And sometimes, that means you\u2019ll have to hold off on seeing him (which is way different from dropping off the face of the earth) because you\u2019ve already made plans before he asked you.<\/p>\n

Women who are totally engaged with their lives effortlessly project a grounded, mature (read: NOT boring), yet fascinating personality.<\/p>\n

When he sees how much fun you\u2019re having from doing the things you\u2019re passionate about\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026he\u2019ll want to gatecrash the party and get in on the action!<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be like, \u201cShe looks cool. I can totally see myself hanging out with her. Bet she\u2019s amazing in bed, too.\u201d<\/p>\n

(Whoops, did I just say that? But it\u2019s true\u2026)<\/p>\n

Discover Why Men Pull Away \u2013 and make sure he\u2019ll NEVER leave you\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

#5: Positivity breeds positivity<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Fun has been a recurring theme in this article, and for good reason.<\/p>\n

Men don\u2019t want to be around someone who brings down their energy. We\u2019re driven, competitive, and we like people who lift us up.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s the same with a romantic partner: no one likes a party pooper.<\/p>\n

Look, I know you can\u2019t be Pollyanna and spout platitudes of sunshine and happiness all the time. We all have our bad days.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, it\u2019s important to him that you have a generally positive attitude \u2013 and not walk around with a dark cloud hanging over your head.<\/p>\n

Here are a few questions to ask yourself:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2013 \u201cDo I find myself complaining a lot? Do I rant on social media every time something bad happens \u2013 or comment on every piece of bad news out there?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2013 \u201cWhen I\u2019m with my guy, do I talk crap about my co-workers, relatives and friends?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2013 \u201cDo I try to see the best in people and situations? Or do I tend to assume the opposite?\u201d<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re a miserable person, but it does help to do a little self-reflection and awareness \u2013 especially when you\u2019re around your guy.<\/p>\n

#6: Practice radio silence every now and then<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Nope, I don\u2019t mean cutting off all contact and see how he reacts.<\/p>\n

Playing hard to get to an extent is fine, but it isn\u2019t about manipulating his emotions or making him feel bad.<\/p>\n

So all I\u2019m asking is that you don\u2019t broadcast every single thing you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t need to know what you\u2019re having for lunch, or how Linda from Marketing hogged the floor during the office meeting.<\/p>\n

Social networking sites are a bit to blame because it adds to the \u201cGimme my 15 minutes\u201d culture.<\/p>\n

And technology in general is making it way TOO easy for us to bombard other people with the mundane aspects of our lives.<\/p>\n

This special guy of yours isn\u2019t your best friend or mother. He\u2019s perfectly fine wondering a little what you\u2019re up to.<\/p>\n

In fact, it\u2019s the perfect way to avoid making him feel crowded. Give him the headspace to think about you, rather than trying too hard to insert yourself in his thoughts.<\/p>\n

#7: Finish STRONG<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ever heard the expression \u201cstick the landing\u201d?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s when an athlete finishes a move in style (like in gymnastics) and strikes a cool pose \u2013 often to thunderous applause.<\/p>\n

In dating, you can do the same and leave a strong impression in a guy\u2019s mind. That way, he\u2019ll be counting the minutes until he sees you again.<\/p>\n

Here are a few ways to do this:<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the date go and on. Eventually, the energy level will go down and that\u2019s not the best time to say your goodbyes. Have a set time, and let him know you have to be up early for work tomorrow.<\/p>\n

So, that means you\u2019ll need to make him feel great while he\u2019s with you. Don\u2019t make the conversation all about you, give him a chance to share his stories, and tell your own (positive and funny ones work best).<\/p>\n

Touch his arm, punch him playfully on the shoulder or mess up his hair (if the situation allows it). Physical cues of attraction are key.<\/p>\n

After your date, he\u2019ll keep replaying that wonderful experience in his head over and over again.<\/p>\n

Remember when Netflix wasn\u2019t a thing yet and you had to wait a whole week to see the next episode?<\/p>\n

I kinda miss that, and I actually liked cliffhangers because it gave me something to look forward to.<\/p>\n

Plus, it was nice to be able to digest what I just watched. Nowadays, we\u2019re overindulging ourselves by binge-watching the whole thing till our eyes glaze over.<\/p>\n

In the same way, you\u2019ve got to pace yourself so he doesn\u2019t get sick of you. That\u2019s the whole point of the game.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019ve been doing most of what we\u2019ve just talked about and he\u2019s STILL pulling away\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2026there might be something more serious going on here.<\/p>\n

A lot of women struggle with this problem, and they\u2019re often clueless why they can\u2019t stop their man from slipping through their fingers.<\/p>\n

However, you don\u2019t have to feel powerless about this situation.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s still hope and you can start by learning about Why Men Pull Away in this shocking video:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Click HERE now to keep him from leaving and win his heart back for good\u2026<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n

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